About the dating standards calculator and our method
We built a dating standards calculator that feels honest and usable. It turns preferences into a match pool index so people can make realistic, respectful choices without drama.
Why we built this tool
Standards tests went viral, but most hide assumptions and push people into harsh conclusions. We wanted a calm, transparent alternative that explains tradeoffs in plain language.
- Show how each filter compounds instead of hiding the math.
- Keep the tone respectful and focused on self-reflection.
- Make the experience fast, visual, and easy to repeat.
How to read the match pool index
The match pool index is a relative score designed for comparison. It is not a prediction of your personal outcomes, and it is not official population data.
- Use it to compare two scenarios side by side.
- Adjust one filter at a time to see the real impact.
- Keep values like kindness and consistency as your final filter.
What makes this different
We focus on clarity instead of hype. The dating standards calculator keeps assumptions visible and gives you practical guidance that respects real life.
- Transparent heuristics instead of mysterious percentages.
- Privacy-first design with no account or data storage.
- A clean interface that keeps the focus on decisions, not noise.
Dating standards calculator features we stand behind
These features make the dating standards calculator more useful than a typical standards test.
Instant match pool index
See how each preference changes the pool in seconds, without guessing.
Transparent assumptions
We show the logic behind the score so you can trust the direction, not just the number.
Privacy-first design
No login, no profile, no storage. Your inputs stay in your browser.