dating standards calculator methodology explained
This page explains how the match pool index is calculated, what the score represents, and where the limits are so you can use the tool responsibly.
What the index is
The match pool index is a relative score that shows how your filters tighten or loosen the pool. It is designed for comparison, not prediction.
- Updates instantly as you change inputs.
- Helps compare scenarios side by side.
- Turns tradeoffs into a clear, readable signal.
What the index is not
This calculator is not an official census percentage and it does not predict your personal outcomes.
- Not a government or census statistic.
- Not a matchmaking promise or guarantee.
- Not a measure of personal worth or success.
Assumptions we use
We apply transparent, simple heuristics so the effect of each filter is easy to understand.
- Narrow age windows reduce the index more than broad ones.
- Very high minimum height or income thresholds reduce the index faster.
- Stricter dealbreakers lower the pool score more quickly.
- Preferences like education, kids, and intent apply additional weight.
How to use the results
The best way to use the index is to adjust one filter at a time and decide which tradeoff is worth it.
- Treat the score as a signal, not a verdict.
- Pair the data with real values like kindness, effort, and communication.
- Use it to plan where to date and how to talk about standards.
Why this methodology builds trust
These design choices keep the dating standards calculator honest and usable.
Plain-language logic
Every score is explained in human terms so you can follow the reasoning.
Transparent tradeoffs
You see how each filter compounds instead of guessing where the pool went.
Respectful framing
The tool avoids harsh judgment and keeps the focus on choices you control.